The Self-Help meeting I have learned that women were created to complete men and not to become like them. The idea of being a woman today is being as strong as a man. You have to become independent, tough and do everything yourself. A woman is only considered ‘strong’ when she can live based on her own rules and do whatever she wants. I already knew the importance of being a wife but I never understood how deep it was.
Many times I tried to do things to be respected, but it’s only when I learn to value and respect myself that others will also respect me.
I understood that I am a strong woman when I am appreciated for who I am and not for what I do, and when I go against my emotions instead of doing what I feel at the moment. I must have confidence, peace, assurance, care and patience.
Now I know my purpose is to help a man and not become one. I am here to complete my future husband and provide to our relationship what he doesn’t have. I am privileged to be a woman and knowing my role this early in life, will keep me from a having a failed marriage in the future.