I was very rude to those around me

I had no direction in life. I was not doing well as a wife, a mother, a friend and I was just not developing as a person.

I was not on good terms with my husband and we would go for a week or more without talking to each other, even though we were husband and wife. I served or did things for him just to clear my conscience. I had lost love for him at an early stage in our relationship, I had no feelings for or closeness towards him. There was a time we even spent a full year without being close, just like two strangers living together. I almost gave up on my marriage because I started seeing my husband as a burden. I was very rude to those around me. I would nag and always wanted things my way. I used to despise people. I had no affection for anyone. I was filled with anger and I would wish away those who did not agree with me. I cut communication with them, including my own family. As a result my husband became hostile towards me, my children hated me and even my friends left me.

After receiving various lessons and teachings from Godllywood, I realised where I needed to change and to improve as a wife, a mother, sister and friend. I looked at my position as a wife and put into practice everything I was being taught. For example, I started preparing nice meals for him, serving him, showing him affection, appreciating him as a husband, spending more time with him. This time around, these things were no longer a burden for me but a blessing. I have changed as a wife inside out and my husband loves the woman I have become. I treat my children with love and I respect my friends. I am no longer the same person.

I have grown spiritually. Before I did not know how to apply the word of God in my daily life. I would read the Bible, but with little understanding and without any meditation. My spiritual life was not developing because of this. Through attending services in the church, I started seeing the word of God in a different way and I have grown a lot because of this.  I was a very proud person before and now I am open to correction and this has helped me to grow as a person. God has given me so much wisdom through all of this, even at school my students are the best. They always come to me for support and guidance. I have brought many to the church and some are even in Godllywood with me.

Judith Asiimwe Chisakane from Kenya

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79 thoughts on “I was very rude to those around me

  1. monet
    5 de October de 2016 at 6:52

    This blog is really good and it can open your understanding spiritual

  2. 6 de October de 2016 at 3:09

    it is really good when we decide not to do thing on our own way but to obey God voice He found space to work in our life.

  3. Kylie Dikae
    6 de October de 2016 at 6:55

    Good morning Judith
    Thanks for sharing my sister, yes my dear everyday I thank God for leading me to the Godllywood family, thats where I learn a lot of things in my life , I cherish everything i learn and I make sure that I put it into practice. #kisses

  4. 8 de October de 2016 at 1:28

    Thanks for sharing with us really if we listen to God and walk in his ways obey his words and practise what we are taught we can change

  5. Naomi Evarist
    3 de January de 2017 at 8:56

    It true, when your extreme rude even God can’t use you because God wants to use us to serve our family but if we can’t be and example to our family it will impossible for God to reach them through us.

  6. Lorraine I Harupe
    9 de February de 2017 at 8:23

    Once we allow God to work in our lives .God will change our behaviours and make us completely new people.

  7. Lorraine Harupe
    14 de February de 2017 at 7:52

    Our God is good.When we give God a chance to change us . He will change us inside and outside completely.

    Lorraine

  8. 24 de February de 2017 at 15:16

    Thank you for sharing your story . God will rescue and change us if we listen to His voice and obey Him.

  9. 16 de March de 2017 at 17:45

    How we treat things or do things is an offering. However if we are ungrateful for the things we have , the attitude we display will sooner or later reward us or make things worse. Our attitude shows who we are and what is inside of us .

  10. Maletsatsi Sebajoe
    2 de May de 2017 at 17:25

    God always has a purpose when He introduces somethings before us.All women let’s grab the opportunity of growing and being better women in our communities, families and friends.

  11. Ziningi
    5 de May de 2017 at 12:55

    Once you have really décidés to change, you give God a chance to make you into a person that Hé wants you to be.

  12. portia
    5 de May de 2017 at 12:57

    It is true when we put into practise the things of God will bless us.

  13. Lipalesa Moletsane
    8 de May de 2017 at 12:12

    Amen..this a great testimony,what a transformation from the inside out.The change is possible when we are humble to recognise who we are.Thank you for sharing

  14. 8 de May de 2017 at 12:13

    It is indeed a very powerful testimony that shows that the things that are kept inside will always reflect our true character that will either affect the people who are around us in a positive or negative way.As I have seen through this testimony that to change fom within it is possible and I press God through the work of Godllywood.

  15. Masebina Makhubo
    8 de May de 2017 at 16:21

    Strong message indeed.

    • 28 de May de 2017 at 18:07

      It is true when we want to do our own will god can not use us we need to do what god tell us to do it is a very strong message and it really help us to understand that we need to fix our lives so that god can able to help us and bless us.

  16. Lindiwe Msimanga
    9 de May de 2017 at 19:36

    if we give God a chance in our lives and put aside our pride, and enable him to mould us into his own image wonders will take place in our lives.

  17. 9 de May de 2017 at 20:29

    Thanx for sharing it’s really a powerful testimony and transformation from inside out and its true that when ever we humble ourselves and recognise our mistakes God will surely help us without hesitation..

  18. Senate
    11 de May de 2017 at 8:04

    A very powerful testimony indeed. Understanding our roles in the family as a woman and practicing them makes all things fall into place. All we have to do is appreciate God’s plan when He created a woman and embrace it by submitting to Him.

  19. Makhubo Masebina
    11 de May de 2017 at 19:05

    Anger makes a person feel lonely not even want to speak or spending time with someone,if we allow God in our lives He can change the situation and show us the right way.Taking part in godlywood rush change so many things in all the areas of our lives and allowing God in our lives He can our situation.

  20. 12 de May de 2017 at 14:33

    I really appreciate your testimony miss Judith.This is for sure, when we welcome what God has brought before us to change our entire life, we really do change. Godllywood has surely molded women to make us exmplary women of God and society.

  21. Mpaketsi Mphatsoanyane (Lesotho)
    12 de May de 2017 at 21:51

    This testimony thought me something very important. God has his own different ways to use us to spred his gospel. Not only we are learning to become better in godllywood but also to win souls in such a way that we are living with people around us in our environment. Almost of them are unbelievers. They know us very well, all our weaknesses. When we become better through godllywood, they become aware of this and they started want to know how we changed and they follow us. Thank you for this message.

  22. keneuoe raseotsana
    13 de May de 2017 at 19:01

    Thank you so much for your experience. I have learned a lot.

  23. Aphiri Pretty - Polokwane
    14 de May de 2017 at 15:59

    Thank you for sharing your testimony miss Judith.For I too was rude to my family due to things of the past and this created problems and void to a point that we were not united and there was no piece. after attending the godllywood meeting last year November I learned my role as a daughter,a woman,a sibling and a servant of God that’s when I realized that I was wrong and decided to change.today we are happy and are one.

  24. khumalo puseletso
    15 de May de 2017 at 7:20

    thank you Mrs Judith for your testimony, godllywood group is making differences and I believe it still going to make more changes in our lives, the plan of GOD is to give us life in full and through godllywood group we can see that the plan for woman to have life in full is materialising.

  25. Agrippine N Ndeitya
    15 de May de 2017 at 12:52

    wow, this shows that God is not dead. He is always waiting for us to take action and then He react. According to Judith testimony, her friends ran away from her (which is a good thing to do because bad company corrupt good character.) but god was just waiting for her to do something and as she did it, God didn’t take long to restore her marriage and bring peace to her house. This is a proof that a woman has power to either build or destroy her house…

  26. Lilly Nkhabu
    15 de May de 2017 at 18:07

    What a great blessing, we accept correction from others because we will not repeat the same mistake and meditate on the word of God daily and apply in our lives thank you for sharing with us many are going to learn from it

  27. lydia muhembere
    16 de May de 2017 at 7:45

    thank u dear for sharing your testimony..its a bleasing and a lesson to those mothers who are the same as you were before because mothers are always the source of happiness. thank you.

  28. Anna Nghiwanwa
    16 de May de 2017 at 7:50

    With God’s wisdom we are more than overcomes. you are a blessing Judith keep being an instrument in God’s presences.

  29. Angwena Moureen
    16 de May de 2017 at 11:34

    Indeed, thanks for sharing with us your testimony, God can only use us or help us when we give him a chance to. Through, godllywood, you too gave ears to God and that’s how we are supposed to be.

  30. Mercia Malio
    16 de May de 2017 at 16:38

    Thank you for sharing your testimony its a lesson learned, one should never under-estimate the power of God in our lives….
    “Blessed woman is the one that Builds her home and not pluck it down with her own hands”

  31. ACHIRO BEATRICE
    17 de May de 2017 at 13:43

    being rude and having bitterness brings sadness,loneliness,rejection.it worse with a woman because it lowers your dignity glory be to God that nothing before Him is impossible you are now a great woman with great testimonies

  32. 18 de May de 2017 at 7:47

    Accepting correction and change is better than doing things our own way. Cheers!

  33. 18 de May de 2017 at 12:18

    Indeed when we start to humble ourselves and accept corrections God is able to mold us from inside-out.

  34. Maleshoane Mohapi
    19 de May de 2017 at 9:31

    Comment
    we should obey the words of gos always by doing his will not our will he will stay in us all the time he will always hear when we call apon him

  35. Innocentia Masango
    19 de May de 2017 at 14:22

    Women a created to build homes not houses, but without the help of God one lacks knowledge of how to do so. With tasks we receive from Godllywood God has opened our eyes to see where we need improvement and what we should change. Thank you for sharing your to testimony.

  36. 20 de May de 2017 at 14:04

    This a very great testimony,Sometimes we don’t realize that our behaviour pushes people that we love away,Even God before HE uses us He looks at our behaviour and Characters.Godlywood helps us to realize where we need to change and improve through the tasks that we are given.It also helps us to better around people that we live with because no husband wants to be around a nagging and a rude wife.So godllywood teaches us how to treat our Husbands and Children.This is a Great Change indeed.

  37. Pusetso Ramatsasa
    21 de May de 2017 at 20:52

    A women need to accept a rebuke , you are a woman of God because you are not just changed but you have brought many souls to the kindom of God. Truly this is a grea testimony.

  38. saara thomas
    22 de May de 2017 at 14:30

    thank you very much for your testimony.am still single and godllywood is teaching me how i have to be with my husband,i thank God for godllywood because everyday am learning how to develop myself in all aspects of life.

  39. mokhachane ntshadi
    22 de May de 2017 at 15:05

    The strong testinony indeed Mrs Judith. Without God in our life’s will always go wrong. it is important to be led my God in everything we does so that our plans may become a success.

  40. Busi pretty skosana
    22 de May de 2017 at 19:15

    thanks for sharing this testimony with us.without the spirit of God we are nothing. it’s very important to put God first in our lives. I also learn how to develop myself in all aspects of life

  41. 23 de May de 2017 at 15:52

    Thanks to Godllywood for this tremendous work but all glory to God because without Him,nothing can seem valuable but as well thanks for realizing your mistakes and looking for solutions because many people ignore and tend to die silently.so keep doing the good thing you learnt and still learning.be blessed!!

  42. Raphahlela Johanna Ramaisela
    24 de May de 2017 at 4:02

    Thanks for sharing… Touching in deed and eye opener for me….keep in faith and in Christ Jesus… Congratulations

  43. Celestine Minayo
    24 de May de 2017 at 9:15

    Thank you for sharing this powerful testimony. It has really inspired me knowing that we always get blamed for doing somethings but it’s not our wish. God can change negative situations to positive ones. We just need to surrender and follow his teachings

  44. 24 de May de 2017 at 12:29

    This really shiw us the work of the godllywood. It is not just there for us to be in a group, but it teaches us and help us to be better daughter, wife ,employee etc thanks to theres tasks.

  45. Moleboheng Gloria Morake
    24 de May de 2017 at 19:00

    That’s how Godlywood works is there for us to change our lifes and transform it from inside and outside.We thank you for great testimony.

  46. Tsholofelo
    24 de May de 2017 at 20:38

    Very strong massage I indeed believe that God works tru Godllywood to connect with us

  47. 24 de May de 2017 at 22:28

    This is an interesting testimony, one thing that always break relationship is pride, I am so thankful for godllywood because is teaching us on how to be good wife’s,mother and in every area of our lifes.

  48. 24 de May de 2017 at 22:28

    This is an interesting testimony, one thing that always break relationship is pride, I am so thankful for godllywood because is teaching us on how to be good wife’s,mother and in every area of our lifes.

  49. Lezaundray
    25 de May de 2017 at 22:10

    It’s so important for me to realize that how I treat my family is exactly the way I treat God. When we are sincere and open for correction,open to learn from God and drink from His fountain,He will then find freedom to work in us and make us the type of women He wants us to be-true women of God. I thank God for this journey of working on myself each and everyday through the Godllywood(the Rush and Self-help meetings etc.)

  50. 26 de May de 2017 at 19:59

    Comment: it is not easy to accept change but it bring complete transformation in our life’s in different parts. thank you very much for the testimony.

  51. Ruth polana
    28 de May de 2017 at 13:18

    God always helps us when He sees us committed a mistake.

  52. zandile mabuza
    28 de May de 2017 at 15:37

    If we allow God in our lives everything just change.

  53. Hendrina Ngongo
    28 de May de 2017 at 19:31

    Powerful, thanks to God

  54. Amanda fikzo 0796731500
    29 de May de 2017 at 17:32

    With God all things are possible only if you believe and allow God to take control of your life..Commitment is the key of success through God…

  55. Maletsatsi Mosia
    29 de May de 2017 at 18:16

    What a wonderful and strong testimony, no matter how much people can think that you are beyond repairs but with commitment and determination…nothing can be impossible.

  56. Anna shetunyenga
    30 de May de 2017 at 20:36

    Thank you for this strong testimony ,yes changes wil comes in our life through hearing the word of God and put them into practice.

  57. Nthabiseng Dhlamini
    31 de May de 2017 at 17:00

    Obeying God is very important then you will be able to love and be humble around other people

  58. 11 de June de 2017 at 14:17

    No one comes to someone who is rude because this one makes people to fear you and even loose your friend ,the only solution is to look upon to Jesus christ

  59. 11 de June de 2017 at 17:04

    Amen…..When we do what pleases God, everything falls into place, there is peace and we become a reference of God,people see God through our lives.

  60. 12 de June de 2017 at 11:25

    Many people, like Judith, walk around as ticking time bombs ready and waiting to explode on others not realising that they have already imploded inside.

    She says she lacked direction in life firstly and her intentions were always selfishly motivated since she mentioned that she did things for her husband just to clear her conscience.

    In return she became rude, nagging, proud and she was full of anger her attitude towards the way she conducted her life was affecting her spiritual life. Read the word of God but could not understand, all those traits didnt give her time to meditate on the word of God.

    When one is filled with anger and pride they become unteachable, they become become a basket of mixed emotions and can’t place their minds on anything positive. Unbearable to be around.

    Her life changed once she realised that she needed to change her mindset, was open to correction through the word of God and acknowledged her errors.

    Pride and anger almost got the better of her. As we all have come to know that ” God resists the proud….” So it was hard for her to change since she wasn’t even able to understand the word of God though she would read.

    An eye opener for all of us not to allow pride to get in the way as it breeds all other negative traits in our lives.

  61. catherine tembo
    23 de June de 2017 at 12:25

    she used to despise people around and her children because of been rude,we need to open up to people who are around us and accept our mistakes so that people can correct them.

  62. Mohlape kgeko Johannah
    25 de June de 2017 at 12:19

    Obeying God is very important, because you will be able to love and be humble to those who around you.

  63. Kgeko Mohlape
    25 de June de 2017 at 12:27

    Obeying God is important, because you will be able to love and be humble to those who around you.

  64. 26 de June de 2017 at 11:36

    Thank God for that great transformation. so this is clear that the problem is always with in us and only when we accept our failure and apply what we are learning will we be able to change and be like we are suppose to be.

  65. Mildred Andisi
    30 de June de 2017 at 5:38

    Wow! Amen. Godllywood if for anyone who wants a difference.

  66. 1 de July de 2017 at 17:31

    Its always good to accept our own mistakes in case we are corrected to avoid being misled and we should seek guidance and counseling from others,respect each other,control your tongue.God bless you more dear!!

  67. butali renah
    3 de July de 2017 at 17:13

    Its always good to accept our own mistakes in case are we corrected to avoid being misled and we should seek guidance and counselling from others respect each other control your tongue.Amen

  68. butali renah
    3 de July de 2017 at 17:15

    Its always good to accept our own mistakes in case we are corrected to avoid being misled and we should seek guidance and counselling from others respect each other control your tongue.Amen

  69. 4 de July de 2017 at 15:37

    Face à nos habitudes qui sont contraires à la Parole de DIEU, nous devons avoir le coeur humble pour reconnaître nos erreurs et travailler à changer pour notre propre bien et celui de notre entourage.

  70. Adelaide Mmbo
    6 de July de 2017 at 14:59

    This testimony is reminding me my past wen i was in relationship, i never cared about my husband and yes we got separated but through godllywood Rush this year and this testimony i now know if i enter to another relationship i will respect my spouse and allow him to be in his position i will play my roll as a wife.
    Adelaide godllywood Kenya.-RUSH.

  71. Juliette Ouedraogo
    9 de July de 2017 at 0:12

    Chaque être humain à ses défauts.mais les reconnaître et les abandonner nous fons grandir dans tous les aspects de notre vie.

  72. olele estelle
    9 de August de 2017 at 8:14

    Chaque être humain a ses défauts mais devant Dieu nous devons être humble pour reconnaitre notre erreurs car peu importe qui nous sommes Dieu est capable de fait de nous une personne meilleur et un modèle.

  73. Elestina Mkandawire
    10 de August de 2017 at 12:37

    Put God first in every thing you do.

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